Friday, April 26, 2013

the battles she dint choose



What does life want now? It was all she could think of. She wanted to shake alive every quiescent incident that she had hidden in the corners of the darkest corners of her mind and think about what she was left with that life could take away; anything that she had stacked away in those dungeons, stuff that made her wince with embarrassment at her juvenile stupidity, those mistakes she wished she'd never made. She was always regarded as the one who grew up way too fast. Wisdom dawned her aura, and yet it seemed as if the child deep within her surfaced too often, trying to live a life it never could, making that worldly knowledge of people curtain itself, as if almost unwilling to disturb the child in her at its best. But then as I mentioned earlier, wisdom dawned her aura. When she was looked at, it was not her stunningly beautiful face framed by waves of long black hair that people noticed first. It was that intimidating feeling that washed through them, an unwillingness to know what lay behind those eyes. She had heard men talking about how much they loved a woman who had an untouched innocence about her. Little did she know that it was exactly the opposite of THAT, some daring men found most appealing in her. It was the confidence with which she walked, the second glances at people by which she could easily tell who they were on the inside, the way she completed everybody's sentences, knowing exactly what they wanted to say (better than they did) because she had gone through it all. Life as she knew it had been unkind to her often, but like the millions of lessons she learned, she knew that it was because of that unkindness that she was not just any other woman in any man's life. She was who she wanted to be, always holding the upper hand, the one to passively control things around her. That was the strength of her aura, something no one had ever been able to take from her.

She sank down on her sofa quietly wondering why the past was trying to become her present. She wondered why the people she had let go off an eternity ago wanted to be a part of her life now. Didn't they know that things would never be the same now? Or did they think she was weak because she had chosen to let go and run away. Rashi had always known that she was never the weak one. Over the years, she had learned that neither running away nor letting go were signs of cowardice because, she was one of the few who knew  the courage and strength it took to let go and move on and try forget something she'd held on to so strongly. And every time those things knocked at her door, she knew how much strength it took to shove them out, tell herself that there was no room for second thoughts. She knew how much strength it took to remind herself time and again that there were some things she never did. Going back on a word she had promised herself was one of them. So yes, there was no turning back! There never would be, even if she sometimes she wished she could.

But today was different. It wasn't any other past that had turned up at her door. No, it wasn't that friend who had once betrayed. No, it wasn't that sister who didn't care. And no, it wasn't that family that once turned their back on her so mercilessly. She winced at the thought of who it was. As she wrecked journals of memories, she remembered an old friend who'd been with her through it all. She remembered the words that had once slipped her tongue. “It’s never going to leave you alone. It will tag along one day and you'll find yourself right where you were in the first place”. She had been right about the first part. That past had never left her. It always came back every few years for reasons she did not know. For reasons, she didn't want to know for her own sake. But that friend had been wrong about the second part. It didn't leave her where she had started. She was miles away from the beginning; the void filled with experience and wisdom. Every time that past knocked on her door, she found herself beckoning the strength everyone knew she had. The power to never look back, swear on her soul to keep the promises others couldn't keep. And so she walked away every time. And she didn't care about those who thought she was weak. Because she knew that walking away had always been an option, but she was never the reason she had made it her choice.

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